By: Bari Sobelson, MS, LMFT
According to the PTG Research Group, the growth has a tendency to happen in the following 5 areas:
- New opportunities have emerged from the struggle– perhaps the experience has opened the door for opportunities that may not have presented themselves before.
- Change in relationships with others– a traumatic event may bring people closer together for various reasons.
- Increased sense of own strength– the trauma may have shown the survivor that they have more strength than they ever imagined, having survived the experience.
- Greater appreciation for life– the event may have “opened the eyes” of the survivor to new aspects of life they never saw before.
- Change in or deepening of religious/spiritual beliefs– It is quite possible that the experience could shift spiritual/religious beliefs in various ways, depending on the person.
While PTG Research Group recognizes the potential for the growth from traumatic experiences, they also see the importance in acknowledging the following:
- While people may experience growth from traumatic events, they still suffer.
- There is no implication that traumatic events are good.
- Not everyone who experiences a traumatic event will experience growth
So, can good really come from bad? The answer: there is certainly potential for growth.
References:
U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs: https://www.va.gov
The University of North Carolina at Charlotte: http://www.uncc.edu
Posttraumatic Growth Research Group: http://ptgi.uncc.edu
This post was written by Bari Sobelson, MS, LMFT, the Social Media and Programming Coordination Specialist for the MFLN Family Development Team. The Family Development team aims to support the development of professionals working with military families. Find out more about the Military Families Learning Network Family Development concentration on our website, Facebook, and Twitter.